Sexual attraction comes from both physical and emotional attraction. Physical attraction is sociocultural and biological. Romantic attraction demands both sexual attraction and psychosocial attraction.
Unknown information and variables can shake romantic relationships. That's why commitment should be placed last, after all known information.
But what is the most crucial information?
For me, they shall have:
My standards... are surprisingly high? To be honest if it's my Chaos Form, I won't be picky as long as they're physically close to me. But those who are far away from me, I need at least one of them to be true. But for true commitment level, I need four of them to be true. For the ultimate monogamy level, I need all of them to be true. Surprisingly, I was able to last 3 years with someone who only meets 2 of them.
To think that one who considers themselves infinitely generous and eternal would consider their own needs, surely the sun must be rising from the west!
I am so ashamed... I thought myself greater than others, different from others, unaffected by physical appearances, but now that their physical appearance is unthinkably lower than expected, I am shocked. It was when I realized that romance without physical attraction is so half-assed and incomplete.
I am a great actor and performer. But playing the role of a Yandere without meeting enough crucial requirements, without even having access to chaos form, is extremely tough. I must have lost my mind.
No, I am not toying with them, I am taking responsibility for my foolish words by trying to fix everything. It seems I would rather try to fix everything than admit to my mistakes. It's like I volunteered to be the main actor without seeing the script and now that I saw it and became horrified, I'll still try my best to continue playing the main role. This is my way of taking responsibility.
Relationships start when two people interact with each other in a way that generates emotions. It could start from conflict and hate just as much as attraction and camaraderie.
Even when when mutual liking is apparent, it is common and socially encouraged to hold back and suppress their feelings, to edge themselves as much as possible until one side gives up and confesses first. Relationships who do more activities together than just talking and chatting are more likely to last.
At some point, the initial passion begins to wane. Security, equality, and trust becomes the foundation for the relationship. People who are more secure about themselves would not demand or give too much, making the relationship equal. Relationships who are equal have easier time trusting each other, content with not meeting or chatting for periods of time. Giving too much, demanding too much, and accepting too much will break the equality.
When they learn more about each other, they'll gradually learn about the flaws and dark sides of their partner. If the relationship survives the shock and grows deeper as a result, then it can last for a very long time.
External influences like gossips, rumors, friends, families, and society would eventually pile up and threaten the relationship. Internal conflicts can come from these external influences or they can come from the individuals themselves, threatening to destabilize the relationship.
When the relationship weakens, they'll cheat and hide more secrets from each other, creating a rift of distrust. Then the relationship breaks apart. Or maybe the relationship grows stronger and they live happily ever after.
The play must go on.
Love, attraction, affection; what are these strange things? I only have four questions: can I hug them or not? Will they hug me back? Can I cuddle them or not? Will they cuddle me back? I want as many of them as possible. In the end, these are the only things I need to know."
Someone told me to write a date in articles, here it is then: 10/31/25